I don't believe that it speaks to my character however, I never had the intention to have a weak spot in my boundaries, I was just ignorant. So although I was always really proud of my boundaries, I have learned to improve them further. Luckily I never had to worry about going any further down that road because I did shut down any further inappropriateness, but I want to shut it down before it even begins now. Sounds harsh but sharing that kind of information is the beginning of the road to hell. Now if that happened I would let them know that I think their husband would be much more interested in what they have to say than I am.
Used to be that they would often tell me things about their relationships that I really didn't need to know(as I was basically forced to be in a room with these people as a captive listener) But I would pretend to listen and be supportive, thinking that I just needed to "get along" with them to keep the work environment positive. My idea of boundaries has changed since I've been through infidelity as well.
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